It's been 5 months and I miss you like it was yesterday. Not a day goes by that you don't come to mind or a memory isn't triggered. I try to imagine what you'd be saying if you were here now.........a "just get on with it", or a "trust that the Universe has your back", and even a "let your hair down once in a while and dance like no-one is watching" :) I smile at this last one because it brings back memories of when you'd send me video clips of you randomly dancing to ABBA in your lounge at night, on your own with a gin in hand - this makes me smile remembering this, but it also makes it bittersweet to know that I won't receive these random solo party night clips at the Oasis of your cosy cottage (which has just prompted me to listen to Maria Muldaur's 'Midnight at the Oasis' hit); eyes closed, I'm humming to this 70's tune and swaying with the beat of the music imagining you so vividly, and again it's making me smile, so thank you dear friend for the gift of lifting me up in this very moment.
If you are grieving a loved one, family, friend or loss of identity, contact me. Grief isn't a "one size fits all." I can help you navigate how you feel and how to move forward (in your own time of course).
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